after oil wrote:and the valves for each cylinder were closed as you tested each cylinder
I am not sure 100% that the cylinders what at TDC
When you put shop air in, if a valve was open (even a little bit), you would hear hissing at either the air filter (throttle body, if the plenum is off) or the exhaust pipe outlet, wherever that is. If no hissing, then the valves are closed.
Perhaps the shop left off all the intake valve stem seals?
should i take the stupid head off and bring it back to that
place that resurfaced and regrinded it?
No. You can see the valve stem seals by removing the valve cover and looking between the coils of the springs. I have replaced them with the head on, on my first '82 720 SD. It's relatively easy -- though a bit messy -- to do (install or replace the valve stem seals) if you follow one important rule on the SD: always have the piston at TDC of the cylinder you are working on the valves. The valve cannot drop into the cylinder if the piston is at TDC.
Anyway, with a good flashlight and a few minutes, you can look between the valve springs' coils and ascertain whether there are valve stem seals installed. I don't know why there wouldn't be -- any competent shop wouldn't leave them out -- but we are double-checking their work now.
Did the dipstick get damaged or replaced? I'm thinking perhaps a three liter overfill might get that symptom.
i dont think so, ive driven hundreds of miles and always need to replace the oil
If the wrong dipstick is used, or the dipstick tube has been altered (not inserted back into the block all the way), you will have to add more oil to get the level to hit the 'F' mark. Say it takes nine quarts to reach that mark. You put nine quarts in, drive. It burns lots of oil due to the oil level being up in the way of the rotating parts now. You add oil when the level is "low" (according to the dipstick). The oil level remains too high, oil consumption continues to be high.
Just guessing, but check to see that the dipstick's outer tube is not hanging out of the block an inch.